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Failed Conservative Values: Nancy Kops on Selfishness

Written by: Edwin Rutsch on Jun 10, 2008 11:19 AM EDT

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I talked with Nancy Kops and asked her about Failed Conservative Values and what are Progressive Values.  She feels caring is the most important liberal-progressive value.  She knows many conservatives and finds them to have good hearts and be very caring about the people around them. However, she can’t figure out why they can be attracted to the Republican Party. She thinks they just don't see the big picture.

Failed Conservative Values: Nancy Kops on Selfishness

Nancy:  I’ve known many Republicans who are very decent people, and I would have to say they are very caring about the people who are around them, and maybe with respect to other people.  But I get the feeling that the values of Republicans are “We have made it through our own efforts, and the people who haven’t made it, it’s their fault that they didn’t make it.

But I do know many conservative and Republican people who have good hearts.  And I can’t figure out why they can be attracted to the Republican Party.  It’s mind-boggling to me.  But as individuals they may be wonderful people in many respects.  It’s just the big picture.  I don’t see how they can’t see the big picture.

 Progressive Values - Nancy Kops on Caring

 

My name is Nancy Kops.  I am a retired attorney, retired public defender of 28 years, and I’m at the State Democratic Convention because I’m interested in the Democratic Party and trying to win the election with the issues that concern the Democratic Party.

I’ve always thought of myself as a liberal.  It’s the most standard answer.  So I told him I’m a liberal.  He said “moderately liberal?”.  I said “very liberal”. 

EDWIN:  What do you see as the most important liberal values?

ANSWER:  Caring for all of us, for everybody in society.  Everybody needs to share and take care of the most vulnerable.  I’ve just always felt that people need to treat each other fairly. 

I don’t think there was any specific time when it dawned on me.  I think there was always the value that I thought that things should be fair.

My mother always told me I should play with everybody, that I shouldn’t just have special friends, but to play with everybody.

EDWIN:  She was a special influence on you.

ANSWER:  She was.  And my older sister also.  She was the person who told me when she went to college that the Democrats were the party that cared about the little person, and the Republicans cared about big business.  And my parents have been Republican, and I think she kind of steered me into becoming a Democrat at a young age.

It’s just being conscious.  I feel I’ve been very lucky.  I mean financially, I’ve been lucky, and with good health, having good parents, having a stable life, and I think it’s just being aware of what I have, and that it’s a shame that everybody else doesn’t have at least something – at least some stability and some safety net.  I am just so thankful for what I have, and everybody should have something.


Progressive Values Metaphor: Nancy Kops - Like a Loving Puppy

Well, caring is following your heart, so that if your heart says something is wrong, you take action.  If caring were animal, it would be like a loving puppy, or a loving dog licking you all over and wagging its tail and wanting to be around you and play with you, and just be there for you at all times.

 

Some Questions for Discussion:

 How can conservatives that have good hearts and care about people vote republican and create such a mess in the country and world? What is the transition between being caring for the individual people around you, but supporting the value of selfishness and greed in a larger national context? How can you explain that?
 

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- H O W A R D D E A N is first!~!!!

By Joan In Florida on Jun 10, 2008 3:02 PM EDT
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By puddle on Jun 10, 2008 4:01 PM EDT

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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- ...along with his brother Jim

By linda b on Jun 10, 2008 3:16 PM EDT

can't wait to see you all at DemFest!

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- here's hoping Obama's vp list is just a list.

By mary vb on Jun 10, 2008 3:23 PM EDT
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By Joan In Florida on Jun 10, 2008 3:59 PM EDT

Mary, who is on the list and where did it come from?

I see where Pat Leahey is going to help with the VP selection and he claims to have made a list of 20 which would be a long list I suspect.

 

 

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- Edwin, if you really want an answer to this question...

By Jo*in*Vermont on Jun 10, 2008 3:42 PM EDT

... How can conservatives that have good hearts and care about people vote republican and create such a mess in the country and world? What is the transition between being caring for the individual people around you, but supporting the value of selfishness and greed in a larger national context? How can you explain that?

you're going to need to ask conservatives, not the liberals/progressives that you've been posing the question to.  if you really want to know, that is. (... and if you go back a few decades - to when the dems got too big for the little guy and in their greed lost it all and the anger at what 'we'd done' ran high - you just might have the beginning of an answer.  back then they were feeling about democrats much the same way we're feeling about republicans right now.)

bottom line - we're all Americans.  please stop trying so hard to define a division between us.  

gotta run - tornado watches in effect and the warning is bleeping on the telly. 

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- Obama has Schweitzer with him today. Webb is on the list I see, I would prefer Zinni as a military choice.

By Phil Specht on Jun 10, 2008 3:57 PM EDT
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- Oh! I'd *Love* to see Schweitzer

By puddle on Jun 10, 2008 4:11 PM EDT

on that list. . . . Please, God, please. . . .

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By Phil Specht on Jun 10, 2008 4:01 PM EDT

McCain tried to tie Obama to the sixties today, ...  he was in grade school at the time .

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- I don't know what the hurry is on a VP pick. I would wait for a broader indication of how non primary voters are evaulating the general election stump speech.

By Phil Specht on Jun 10, 2008 4:08 PM EDT

not the holes Democrats found in it, Obama had a centrist policy message with a place at the table for the people.

he can calibrate how much that seat appeals to people before rejecting the notion of a populist type like Webb, or a more progressive anti-war stance(like Zinni) if he needs to reinforce that direction

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By Phil Specht on Jun 10, 2008 4:13 PM EDT

one of the problems is that the prospects look so good for Democrats this fall that there is jockying for the spot for 2016

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- Back to Biden for me

By Fred from Oregon on Jun 10, 2008 4:34 PM EDT

Biden would be a good architect for the drawndown and leaving Iraq.  He's thought and planned more for it diplomatically, politically (in Iraq) and logistically IMO than anyone.  He has assembled a coalition of supporters who've been just as interested on how to do it.

He's of working class origins, an elder statesman, a household name, and respected on both sides of the aisle.

 

 

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- Biden has been to Iraq at least 7 or 8 times

By Fred from Oregon on Jun 10, 2008 4:36 PM EDT

One of McCain's recent jabs is that Obama's only been there once.

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By Karen on Jun 10, 2008 5:22 PM EDT

He would be a good Sec. of State candidate.

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- my late lunch soliloquy is finished

By Phil Specht on Jun 10, 2008 4:18 PM EDT

the down fences lead to a trailer load of renegade beefers headed to a beef counter near you(docile animals that respect poly wire are in higher demand here on the farm than ones that need a five barb fence)

feed prospects are leading to liquidation of the beef and dairy herds so beef prices are relatively lower now (same as two years ago)

might not be true in another year so crank up the grill and enjoy a steak

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- Selfishness

By Monica Smith on Jun 10, 2008 4:28 PM EDT

I think conservatives don't consider themselves to be selfish.  Quite the opposite.  Since they're always attending to what other people want and what other people think of them, they think of themselves as other-directed.  That is, the other directs their behavior.  They consider self-directed people who act on the basis of internal moral criteria to be selfish.

Mainly, they can't conceive of the community interest to be the same as individual interst because they see the individual as antagonistic to society--someone who needs to be bribed or coerced to comply.

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- the list

By mary vb on Jun 10, 2008 4:43 PM EDT

http://firstread.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2008/06/10/1127710.aspx

 

My top choice is Schweitzer - I can just hear the wingnuts now calling them the *terrorist ticket* because Schweitzer speaks Arabic and Barack has that terrorist thingy going with his fist.  LOL

 

I like Webb too. 

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- Some good points, Monica

By Fred from Oregon on Jun 10, 2008 4:49 PM EDT

Self-centered, or Self-absorbed is more like it.  Many of them pride themselves with great amounts of time and money in philanthropy and would be insulted to be called selfish.  But there outlook on life tends to divide people as achievers and non-achievers. 

Wealth for them seems to cover a multitude of sins because it indicates character and initiative.  Bad luck, disabilities, place of birth, personal quagmires, all appear to them as excuses, or half-excuses, for not pulling one's own weight.

Yet conservatives become somewhat blind to fact that many born wealthy, with little character and personal accomplishment also fall into the same category.

The biggest blind spot they have is seeing successful business people as better people (in God's eye's maybe.)  Even worse, this leads to seeing unsuccessful people (in the worldly sense) as lesser beings.

They often fail to see the contribution supporters of their work and people who work in support systems that allow them to do the work they do.

Not all conservative people fit this stereotype.  And even some liberals have some of these attitudes, especially "liberal elistists"

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- a word about the futures markets from someone who has held one position or another in the markets for the last 35 years

By Phil Specht on Jun 10, 2008 4:46 PM EDT

the aggregation of large amounts of liquidity in the hands of hedge fund managers originally caused by favorable tax rates has led to a preference for derivatives in general and so steady streams of small contibutions into pension funds and the like have lead to portfolio managers with a bias towards "buying" something (like a percentage of the portfolio in commodities) and a true futures market that functions to find a "settlement" price where an equal number of buyers and sellers of the actual physical product meet is biased towards the upside as more buyers than sellers come into the market

it isn't really "speculation" that is the problem but more of a systemic loss of true costing of future obligations in general, futures markets are leveraged, there are bigger risks than the housing bubble being built into the system

a right to own a commodity at all time record high prices, only really makes sense if there is never a defense of the dollar, or the cash market never has to reconcile with the futures market

there at least has to be equal access to credit for liquidity to defend a position if the elevator owners have to defend a contract to deliver position against the "long" purchases of the Public Employees Of California

and the true end users don't get to find a price that a true open market would provide them without those biases working against them

I don't think it is in pensioners real self interest if the aggregation of their funds lead to a $10 gallon of milk because commodity futures inclusion in a portfolio leads to a feed price that puts dairymen out of business because it is disconnected from supply and demand

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By * rdorgan on Jun 10, 2008 5:22 PM EDT

Indeed.

Wall Street not giving a damn about Main Street.

 

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- It's John Edward's "two Americas"

By Fred from Oregon on Jun 10, 2008 5:30 PM EDT

The only thing Wall Street wants from the rest of us is to consume.  And even that's not important anymore.  Now that they are operating out of China, they have the whole world for a market.  They take all the advantages of being based here, but taxes and social spending is money down the rathole to their way of thinking.

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- Keith on faux's interpretation of the 'fist bump'

By Karen on Jun 10, 2008 5:28 PM EDT
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- Republicans Are Arrogant Fools

By sandy m on Jun 10, 2008 5:35 PM EDT

Been listening to debating in Senate.  It looks to me as if the only solution Republicans think will solve the rising gas prices is more drilling in the US.  Do they realize it would take years for this to affect the prices?  What do we do when this energy source gives out?  Or if it doesn't pan out?  Sessions saids if you don't agree with drilling you are confused.  They have one thing in mind, help GWB with drilling in ANWR, a quest he has been on since his first day in office. 

I just read the list of Senators who voted for and against polar bears being on endangered list.  Landrieu voted against.  As far as I could see she was the only Dem to do so.

 

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- Dodd

By sandy m on Jun 10, 2008 5:40 PM EDT

I wanted Barbara Boxer as VP or Howard, but I don't think that is going to happen.

I'm kind of warming up to the idea of Dodd. Although Schweitzer would be excellent, still like Richardson too.

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- new democrat

By Laura Hubka on Jun 10, 2008 5:43 PM EDT

Being new to the political world. I guess standing on the outside I thought that republicans were the ones that went to church but did not act Christian and the liberals were the ones who didn't go to church but acted more Christian.

Now I see that there a lot of liberals that attend church and vice a versa. But my biggest reason for becoming a democrat after all this time is that it just seemed right, it felt comfortable.

I think the republicans and democrats have changed what their parties definition is publicly over the decades and the older republicans just haven't figured it out yet.

I am ready for the end of party lines all together.

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- Hitchin' a ride to say...

By Karen on Jun 10, 2008 6:11 PM EDT

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