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Progressive Values Stories: Carol Dipple on Caring

Written by: Edwin Rutsch on Apr 18, 2008 11:36 AM EDT

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  I met Carol Dipple at a street fair in El Cerrito, California. She told me about learning to care and have empathy  for people from her mother.

 Progressive Values Stories: Carol Dipple on Caring

My name is Carol, I live in Berkeley, and I am the new president of an international women’s service organization in  El Cerrito.

Edwin: You felt that caring was a progressive value?

Yes.

Edwin:  What do you think about caring? How did you come to have that value?

Oh, I suppose through my education and my upbringing. My mother  was an incredibly loving, caring person and taught me to look outward rather than inward. And I have to say it’s mostly due to her influence and throughout my young years that she would repeat that message to me one way or another.

Edwin: Do you remember any incident where you learned a lesson about caring?

Well, yes. It was more than one, because any time I would complain, as children do, about something, that I’m too tired, or hungry, or I’m complaining about too much work to do, or that my big toe hurts, some kind of small thing that is big in a child’s eyes, she would most always say “You need to look at what other people are experiencing, because what you are experiencing is so minor compared to what other people have in their lives.’

Edwin: It almost sounds like empathy. You said you have multiple stories. Do you remember another one?

Well, maybe this is sort of silly, and maybe this is silly, and I don’t know if it’s politically correct today, but at a very young age she made me aware if someone was in a wheelchair or an amputee of some sort, to focus on the wholeness, and not on the disability. I think that may have been because her grandfather was an amputee, and maybe he influenced her life that she understood he was more than the definition of a person who doesn’t have legs.

Edwin: Did that actually happen, that she said that to you?

Yes, in a public place, like every young child, you’re often faced with things, walking around with your mother, and you’re wondering “What’s that all about?” You know, I remember more than once I would question why's that person’s in a wheelchair, and I wouldn’t say it in those words. I was too young to express it that way, then she would take the opportunity to explain to me in a quiet way, you should have care and understanding for what the person may be going through.
 

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By Susan Rowe on Apr 18, 2008 6:13 PM EDT

Dean, DFA, fiscally responsible & socially progressive values are first!

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By Huron John on Apr 18, 2008 6:39 PM EDT

On the other hand, Gallup has Obama ahead by only 3--down from 11 before the "debate".

A pox on all pollsters

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By mary vb on Apr 18, 2008 6:52 PM EDT
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By mary vb on Apr 18, 2008 6:54 PM EDT

Who is whining now?

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By mary vb on Apr 18, 2008 6:58 PM EDT

This is a gut-wrenching story from a woman whose husband is dying with mounting med. bills and her son is being sent off to Iraq for his third deployment. She's bitter and lives in a small PA town.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/marylee-sm...

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By puddle on Apr 18, 2008 6:50 PM EDT

 

 

 

 

 

 

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By Ronald Cloud on Apr 18, 2008 7:07 PM EDT

Sam None and David Barren endorse Obama.

Fire away.

Maybe it's time to ask if progressives ga-ga over Obama while condemning the DLC have any standards left over who their political bedfellows are.

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By Phil Specht on Apr 18, 2008 6:56 PM EDT

I have great respect for Sam Nunn and David Boren.,

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By Phil Specht on Apr 18, 2008 6:58 PM EDT

Sam Nunn should find a home as Secretary of Defense.

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By Pat in Colorado on Apr 18, 2008 7:11 PM EDT

Hi,

On Keith Olbermann's show last night, he showed snippets of Cheney's "comedy routine" before the Washington Press Corps.   He mocked Al Gore when he said that it was spring, not global warming, and he made other comments that I found appalling.  What' is funny about the catastrophes we will be facing? And, the people laughed and applauded.  These are people of power, influence, and wealth.  I"m, no, I don't have the words for it, dismayed, horrified???

We are at war, we are destroying the enviornment, we cannot get along with one another, we are greedy, corrupt, vicious, violent, and exploitive, and killing off every species that is in any way competitive with us.

I remarked to my husband that I think Freedom is one of the most dangerous words we've ever uttered.  He said, that Bobby McGee had it right," Freedom's just another word when there's nothing more to lose."

The freedom our marketing/capitalistic/ militaristic society has perpetrated is exploitation, greed, destruction, waste, inequality, punishment, cruelty, and total rejection of ethics, boundaries, community, care, and the planet itsef.

Guess I've done a pretty good job of gloom and doom, but I do feel we will experience terrible catastrophes and the fools at the Press Corps dinner are laughing as the volcano spills lava over them.  What to do? 

 

 

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By Pat in Colorado on Apr 18, 2008 7:18 PM EDT

That should be: "Freedom's just another word when there's nothing LEFT to lose."

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By Joan In Florida on Apr 18, 2008 7:27 PM EDT

On Keith Olbermann's show last night, he showed snippets of Cheney's "comedy routine" before the Washington Press Corps.   He mocked Al Gore when he said that it was spring, not global warming, and he made other comments that I found appalling. 

 

Hi Pat

Yes, Cheney and others like him are appalling.

Actually, I was also annoyed at Olbermann for showing that Cheney clip. Replaying these things gives them wings for flying. Some imbiciles will think it was actually funny and think it is a reason for laughing at global warming.

Olbermann often replays attacks against Obama as if we all needed to see them again.

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By Annilow on Apr 18, 2008 7:14 PM EDT

linda b lots of congratulations to your hubby for his rare achievement of being a master shipbuilder.

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 7:23 PM EDT

Keith is trying his best to be even-handed.

 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 7:28 PM EDT

We still, supposedly, have freedom of speech ... which means cheney can spout off and Keith can report it.'

When people talk like Cheney, it gives the rest of us a very good idea of who he is and where he came from.

 People hang themselves with their own words.  I've done it, and am working hard to not do it anymore.  I'm working on being more kind and less judgmental.

The blog is a great schoolroom.  Among other things, it's a good place to leave the false ego outside before signing on. 

Thank you all for being my teachers. 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 8:12 PM EDT

According to a Keith discussion,  Pawlenty is high on McC's short list.

http://www.governor.state.mn.us/welcome/aboutgovernorpawlenty/index.htm 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 8:25 PM EDT

s/b when people like cheney talk, not when people talk like cheney.

In BO's new tv ad here, he's speaking to a crowd.   He claims he'll give tax breaks to the middle class ... I would have liked to hear him say that he'll rescind the tax breaks for the wealthy. It's a stump speech ad.

I also would like him to make an ad ala *Fireside Chat.*   That's what made Huck so appealing, ghastly as his words sometimes were. 

You know, it would be nice just to see Obama looking into the camera and talking conversationally to the viewer. 

 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 8:32 PM EDT

Keith just took down McC, with great humor, while digging at Stephie. Perhaps Keithie will beat McC.

I wonder about that woman whose face was plastered on Stewart's show.  Do you spose she got paid to ask that oh so pertinent question?

 

 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 8:39 PM EDT

Someone asked about the Rife cancer cure.  I believe he was called a quack by the powers that be, even tho he'd had success.

Here's one link and there are many.  My sense is that most cancer patients will try anything to get well and this Rife cure is being resurrected.

http://www.xenophilia.com/zb0012.htm 

This may or may not be a scam.  You decide.

http://www.rifehealth.com/ 

 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 8:39 PM EDT

Is there another thread to which I've not been invited?  :-)

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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 8:54 PM EDT
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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 8:42 PM EDT

Hi paine.  Whew!  It got lonely.

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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 8:58 PM EDT

Is there another thread to which I've not been invited?  :-)

< Oops, sorry Sea, I didn't mean to interrupt. 

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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 9:07 PM EDT

Sea, stay out of trees.  You may find it difficult to get back to solid ground.  Now, that at isn't a comment...rather it is just a bit pretzel logic.  Don't go squirrelly on me now, hear?

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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 9:14 PM EDT

"Chewin' on a piece of grass..." 

America - Ventura Highway
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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 9:16 PM EDT

Sea, do you do other exercises than Tango ?

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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 9:18 PM EDT

Fog is like being stuck a tree.

America - Sandman
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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 9:22 PM EDT

Hops

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hops

Hops induce drowsiness.

...and no I am not drinking beer.  I am just being off-the-wall. 

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By Imn2Paine on Apr 18, 2008 9:40 PM EDT

OK

I like "owning" the blog.

Let me tell you about a meeting of the mind today:

I happened upon a man - by chance ofcourse (the best!) - who got it when I quoted Frank...

Yeah, he told me he liked Shiek ya' Booty

...and I am hear p[osting this bit of nothingness.

Never mind

as i can't find anything from that albumn. 

Frank Zappa And The Mothers Of Inventi… - Flower Punk

never mind. 

 

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By puddle on Apr 18, 2008 9:41 PM EDT

9:42 pm EST

 

New Thread 

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By seashell on Apr 18, 2008 10:41 PM EDT

Yes, paine, I do yoga, walk and mediate (which is like exercising the soul)

I don't know what you mean about trees.  

Where is everybody?

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By Denise in San Mateo County on Apr 19, 2008 12:19 AM EDT

Ronald Cloud - you are aptly named.

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